Sunday, December 17, 2023

There is Joy in Advent, Even When It Is Hard to Find - 1 Thess 5: 16-18

Grace to you and peace from God our Father and from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.

“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thess 5: 16-18)

The third Sunday of Advent is traditionally called Gaudate Sunday. Gaudate, in Latin, means rejoice. In a season that traditionally was one of repentance and contemplation on the reason for Christ’s coming to be our Savior, the third Sunday was a moment of brightness. The darker hued purple or blue candle is replaced with the bright pink. This is true today, as well. The Christmas celebration draws closer and closer and, for many, the excitement is palpable – just ask any child. “Tis the season!” “Joy to the world!” “It’s the most wonderful time of the year!!!” Parents and grandparents, too, are almost as excited as the kids and grandkids, practically ready to burst in anticipation of Christmas Eve and Day. You’ve found the perfect gifts. You have been playing your favorite Christmas albums on the radio and whether it’s Linus and Lucy on full blast or Handel’s Messiah soaring in etherial wonder, joy abounds.

But for others, “rejoice” just doesn’t hit quite that way. In fact, it’s the opposite. Christmas has “bled back” all the way into October. Some are, simply, tired of tinsel and trees. Ask someone who works in retail who has had to deal with crabby and demanding customers for almost three months. Or, ask parents whose budgets are tighter than ever but don’t want to let down their kids who want the latest and greatest like everyone else in school. Ask someone whose job is in danger, and he or she is wondering what will happen after the New Year. Ask someone whose table will have an empty spot this year. There is a lot of pressure right now, to get the perfect gifts, make it to all the parties, invite the right people, and not omit a card to someone who does not take omissions lightly. There’s the anxiety of the extra expense for gifts and food and clothes. There are concerns for travel arrangements. People get very frustrated. Tempers flare. Relationships, already frazzled and frayed, get broken. The wrong word at the wrong time to the wrong person and the warmth of Christmas becomes a roaring fire of anger.  As a pastor, I empathize with people who struggle with the so-called “Christmas spirit.” I’ve said before, I love the Nativity of Jesus, but I struggle sometimes with Christmas.

I tell you this so we all understand Gaudate Sunday, the Sunday of Rejoicing, means different things to different people. For you who are already filled with joy so that it is overflowing, today will be the whipped cream and sprinkles on your mug of joy. For you who are struggling to find joy, any little drop of joy at all, I pray that you are reminded of the reason we as God’s people rejoice in the first place. I’ll give you a clue: while it involves Jesus’ birth, that is not where you will end today.

When Paul urges Christians to “rejoice always,” he does so, not because it’s Christmastime, or because all is good, right and salutary in the world; it’s because, Paul says, this is the will of God.

We know the will, the desire, of God for us because of the Scripture. The greatest desire God has for all mankind is to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth in Christ Jesus. Salvation is the entire purpose of Christ coming into the world, which we prepare for in Advent. His salvific work in redeeming the world with Himself as our substitute is the plan God had in place from the beginning of time. There is great joy in this gift of God in Christ, and it is His desire that all know, believe, trust and rely on His Son alone for the forgiveness of sins and eternal life.

Therein is joy: God’s son, for you, redeeming you and making you His own.

I think we sometimes think of joy in a future tense: I will have joy one day. Sometimes, we push that “one day” all the way out to the day Jesus returns, as though joy is unavailable and unattainable until the day of the resurrection of all flesh. True, that will be a day of greatest joy – if it helps, think of it with joy with a capitol J – but we have joy already because in Christ, God is already at work, doing all things for good. He loves you. He has made you His own. He sacrificed His Son for you, even while you were still a sinner, Christ dying for you.  You are now, present tense, a forgiven child of God. You are now, present tense, made whole in Christ. You are now, present tense, in Christ, a new creature. You are now, present tense, completely redeemed so that even your joy, however great or small it may be, is made complete in Jesus.

I suspect that a litmus test for our joy-fill-ness is the old glass half-full or half-empty question. You can answer this if you want… How many of you are glass half full people? How many of you are glass half empty people? Here’s the secret: it doesn’t matter. The secret is that the glass can always be refilled. The same is true of joy. Whether you are filled and overflowing with joy, or whether there are only a few precious drops in the bottom of the cup, the Lord fills you with His joy. Remember the scene in the novel, Oliver Twist when Oliver asks for more porridge and he is denied? Our Lord never denies the request. In fact, He already begins to fill our cups and bowls and sacks and hearts and minds and lives with joy before we even ask.

But, if you feel a little less than joy-filled right now, then pray – without ceasing. It’s not a chore; it is, in fact, a joy that you can carry your burdens to the Lord in prayer. When there is anxiety about what the kids want, pray. When there is worry about the family squabble bubbling up and over, pray. When there is stress about work, pray. When the perfect Norman Rockwell Christmas turns into more of a Al Bundy Christmas, pray. Cast your cares upon Him because He cares for you.

Remarkably, Paul also encourages us to give thanks in all circumstances. If rejoice always sounds daunting, give thanks in all circumstances sounds impossible. Notice, he doesn’t say give thanks for all circumstances. Neither Paul nor the Lord are sadistic, filled with pleasure in someone’s pain. You don’t give thanks for being laid off, or for a family member not speaking to you, or for the death of a loved one. But, even in the midst of these difficult moments in life, when the cups of joy are down the thinnest of drops, we can still give thanks because in the fulness of time, God entered into our creation in flesh. Jesus was born to be our Savior.

That’s important to remember: we do not merely rejoice because it’s almost Christmas. We rejoice because in Christ, we are God’s children. Likewise, we do not merely give thanks because it’s almost Christmas. We give thanks because in all things, God works for the good of those whom He loves, and whom does He love more than those for whom His Son to die?

Our joy, our prayers, our thanksgivings are not bound by the seasons, or our circumstances, or the world in which we live. They are all grounded in this: Jesus is Immanuel, God with us. Not just on this Gaudate Sunday, but every day. And, paradoxically, not just into eternity, but now, on this Sunday of joy.

May your joy be full, in Christ, your Lord and Savior.
Amen.

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